Hi DDay2
Welcome to our "group" of CH like minded people all just trying to give each other a hand.
I hope by now you have been able to have a good read of all the great information on the left hand side of the site and taken all the links. Knowledge is power when it comes to managing your illness. I urge you to to take the time to read through them with your wife to gain a better understanding of One of the hardest lessons which is to realise that what works for one person wont necessarily work for the next.
Not sure of your current status with medical assistance ie are you seeing a good GP or neuro? You need someone on your side you can talk to and most importantly work with.
Do you keep a headache record? When they start, how long, intensity, medication effects, any information that could help your dr in assessing you.
You are indeed fortunate that your wife is with you--keep it that way--her support is so important for you as you work your way through the attacks and the after. Please dont forget to acknowledge her along the way. We can get pretty hard to live with. The strain on my relationship (married nearly 40 years) has been pretty hard and it doesnt get any easier, you really need to work on it.
There is no doubt that this is a rotten illness, but the best part is that it is not life threatening--but it can be debilitating. You need to be very proactive in your treatment and be on top of it and prepared for the attacks when they come.
Learn about the medications that you are on, including side effects.
Some suggestions of mine I know not always taken--go see a psychologist who can help you with pain management! Helped me TREMENDOUSLY!! Gave me some techniques to use that were awesome. Not saying took pain away, but helped me manage the 7-8s without using imigran!
Stay proactive, but most important, stay positive. Keep your lovely wife well informed and close; and remember the kids!
The pain of each attack will end, the cycle will end.
Good luck
Heather
This post was edited on 24/03/2011 at 8:09 am