Welcome Walkerboy21
There is no doubt that this is a tough illness to deal with but it CAN BE MANAGED, so heads up and take heart!!
So what should you do?
You can not manage this on your own--you can try like I did, you can hide your pain like I did, you can research it to hell like I did, but at the end of the day you will need help.
First of all you need a clear diagnosis by a doctor--and then you need to work with your doctor on managing first your pain and then the management of the headaches themselves. Now if your Doctor does not help you--find one who does! It is that simple. There are plenty of good doctors out there who are very well versed on the management of headaches generally now and even more so on cluster headaches. If they raise there eyes at the mention of cluster headaches, then move on.
Keep a diary of your headaches; how often, how long, how intense the pain, when they occur, where you are, anything that might be effecting them. Smoking, drinking, eating that day. What you have tried for the pain and any effect.
READ all the information on the left--KNOWLEDGE is power and when you do see the doctor gives you a basis of understanding when you discuss things with him/her.
Treatment:
I am only reinforcing what is on the left:
OXYGEN: the cheapest and the best and earliest treatment for CHs. Also the earliest diagnositic method for CHs. If you use oxygen and your headaches go away--you can be sure you suffer from CHs. Read the information, get the oxygen--and IT IS THAT EASY to get. Follow the simple instructions.
Oxygen will not stop the headaches from occurring but will help you manage the pain of the attack.
Medication from Doctor available as explained on the left -- I use oral imigran, some use nasal spray or by injection.
Then there is the preventative treatment method which is aimed at stopping the attacks before they start. As these headaches are very unpredictable and are "clusters" they are indeed hard to manage--but the medicos are getting better at finding stuff for us. Currently I am on Verapamil and Topomax.
I am also a great believer in using good breathing techniques during attacks--if the brain needs more oxygen, then being in some form of control rather than head butting the wall has to be a better option.
Last year was a toughy for me, there were times that I was on the edge of depression brought about by the illness, I was averaging 6 headaches a day, acute on chronic, spent many weeks in hospital, BUT, working with my neuro, worked through it and now am GREEN. My acute period ended on the 6th October--what an amazing relief. Now I rely on my medication to hold them at bay. Whilst I still get headaches they are more of a migraine and I manage them with imigran--they are not the excruciating pain of a cluster headache. I know the nerve is still pinging but the pain is manageable.
SO--negate the negativity of my August posting and see that I am GREEN and smiling; IF and WHEN my next round starts I am READY for it, I have a plan set up with my neurologist, I know what to do.
Seek help, be proactive and dont try to manage this on your own. There is definitely help out there and good treatment available.
Heather